Glamour: Youâve had a career that is impressive by any measure and are now starting a new, entrepreneurial chapter. Why did you decide this next act should include reality TV?
Bozoma Saint John: Let me answer that this way: I have had so many jobs where I am the first, or one of few, to do the job as a Black woman. Representation is sometimes a badge of honor and a burden at the same time. I have to represent the Black girls in lots of rooms. It has been both a blessing and a burden because it means that a lot of times I feel the pressure of having to be perfect because thereâs no room for failure. If I fail, then all of a sudden itâs the failure of everybody around me, right?
Iâve turned a corner in my life where I am doing things that are for âbrand Boz,â not for brand Netflix, not for brand Apple, not for brand Uber. I want to be the representation for women like me, the self-made ones, the corporate baddies who donât mind wearing the red lip and lots of bundles, the ones who wear sequins on a Tuesday and feel fine about that.⦠Iâm also excited about showing the world a different side of me. I have lots of accolades in the corporate world, but people donât know what Iâm like as a mother. You donât see the soft moments. You donât see me cook, you donât see me in a relationship. Thatâs not a side that people have seen. So Iâm excited to fill out the corners of me people havenât seen.
RHOBH is in its 14th season and has evolved a lot over the years. What do you find interesting about joining the show at this moment in time?
I think at a very unique time because all of the women are single to some degree, whether separated or divorced.
True, I didnât even think about that.
I just think that this is such a fabulous time in life where itâs like, okay, Iâve done a lot of my career, or some of the women have raised their kids, and now youâre at this inflection point in life where things are changing. It certainly is true for me. I couldnât think of a better scenario to showcase my own inflection point. Itâs like, yes, Iâve had a very serious corporate executive career for 25 years, and now Iâm transitioning into entrepreneurship. Also, Iâve been a widow for almost 11 years, and Iâm transitioning into finding love again. Iâve been a single mother. My daughterâs going to be 16, and I am looking at her growing her wings and leaving the nest soon. And meanwhile, Iâm like, Ooh, am I done creating a family? Should I try again?